Manti Te'o's inspirational girlfriend story a hoax

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ATLANTA -- So what exactly is "catfishing?" In their defense of standout linebacker Manti Te'o, Notre Dame said they'd done their own investigation, and he was a victim of a hoax involving his supposed deceased girlfriend.

The media narrative following Te'o throughout the 2012 season revolved around his triumph over personal tragedy. He supposedly lost his girlfriend and his grandmother on the same day, and then performed magnificently on the field shortly afterward.

Then the sports website broke the story that Te'o's girlfriend never existed. Denying he was a part of it, Te'o admitted he had never personally met the woman.

In a spirited defense of Te'o, Notre Dame called invoked the 2010 documentary "Catfish." They said many people are falling victim to "Catfishing."

"It follows the exact arc of this, and it's perpetrated with shocking frequency," said Notre Dame Athletic Director Jack Swarbrick. "An initial casual engagement, a developing relationship, a subsequent trauma, and then a death."

He said Te'o was the perfect victim, because he is honorable and trustworthy.

So where did it start?

"The movie "Catfish" is about a guy who thinks he's met the perfect woman on Facebook. She talks to him, sends him pictures, even sends him paintings in the mail supposedly done by her little sister. But then, spoiler alert, he decides to surprise her. He meets her, and finds out she's actually a middle aged woman, a pathological liar with an active imagination.

Atlanta dating coach Karla Moore said she hasn't seen a client duped that badly, but she says she's seen people let their guard down online--especially when they're as busy as Te'o. She thinks it's possible he was a victim.

"I think quite frankly football was his life, and the experience he had nurturing his social life was probably marginal," said Moore of "And when he encountered a woman online that kind of tickled his fancy, I'm sure she was able to communicate to him in a way that drew him in."


Full story appears below:

(USA TODAY) -- To tell the story of Manti Te'o, Notre Dame's star linebacker, one must discuss his inspirational play in this September's win over Michigan State. Just days after the death of his grandmother and his girlfriend, Te'o racked up 12 tackles and recovered a fumble in a 20-3 victory over the Spartans. The following Saturday, after Kekua's funeral, Te'o made two interceptions in a 13-6 victory over Michigan.

In articles in Sports Illustrated and the South Bend Tribune and in interviews on ESPN, Te'o would recount how his girlfriend, Lennay Kekua, requested that he send white flowers to her funeral. Te'o said that the last words he shared with Kekua were "I love you."

It was a beautiful story, one that publicized Te'o's off-field back story in time to heat up his Heisman Trophy campaign. The story grew over the next three months, including a three-minute piece on CBS This Morning on the day of the BCS championship game on Jan. 7.

The story was also entirely false, according to an article by According to Deadspin, not only did Te'o's girlfriend not die in the days leading up the Michigan State game, she didn't exist at all.

In what Deadspin is describing as an elaborate hoax, Kekua was an online persona created by Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, a friend of Te'o's and a pastor at a church in Palmdale, Calif. Says the Deadspin article:

"We spoke with friends and relatives of Ronaiah Tuiasosopo who asserted that Ronaiah was the man behind Lennay. He created Lennay in 2008, one source said, and Te'o wasn't the first person to have an online 'relationship' with her. One mark - who had been 'introduced' to Lennay by Tuiasosopo - lasted about a month before family members grew suspicious that Lennay could never be found on the telephone, and that wherever one expected Lennay to be, Ronaiah was there instead. Two sources discounted Ronaiah's stunt as a prank that only metastasized because of Te'o's rise to national celebrity this past season."

"We know it's a hoax... The only question out there is exactly what Manti knew about it," Timothy Burke, one of the authors of the piece on Deadspin, said during an appearance Wednesday on CBS Radio.

Deadspin traces back the first national mention of Kekua to an article in the Nov. 28, 2009 edition of the South Bend Tribune, which said that the two met after Stanford's 45-38 victory over the Irish. Kekua was reportedly a student at Stanford; Deadspin writes that Stanford has no record of anyone by that name attending the university.

The article quotes a friend of Tuiasosopo's as saying he was "80 percent sure" that Te'o was "in on it," and that "the two perpetrated Lennay Kekua's death with publicity in mind."

"Mostly, though," the articles continues, "the friend simply couldn't believe that Te'o would be stupid enough - or Ronaiah Tuiasosopo clever enough - to sustain the relationship for nearly a year."

Te'o's agent's office had no comment. In a statement, Notre Dame said that the coaching staff was first informed on Dec. 26 of what the university calls a "sad and very cruel deception to entertain its perpetrators."

"On Dec. 26, Notre Dame coaches were informed by Manti Te'o and his parents that Manti had been the victim of what appears to be a hoax in which someone using the fictitious name Lennay Kekua apparently ingratiated herself with Manti and then conspired with others to lead him to believe she had tragically died of leukemia," read the statement.

"The University immediately initiated an investigation to assist Manti and his family in discovering the motive for and nature of this hoax. While the proper authorities will continue to investigate this troubling matter, this appears to be, at a minimum, a sad and very cruel deception to entertain its perpetrators."

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